Ray Rice Video - punching his gf

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Yxes1122":15rntawj said:
DTexHawk":15rntawj said:
Yxes1122":15rntawj said:
To some yes, but do you think it's a fair punishment to have your life destroyed for one mistake? .



And by having his life destroyed, you mean losing a high paying job? Cause that happens all the time to people at all economic levels and it hurts having to start over at the bottom.

Perhaps he can get a warehouse job, drive a truck, or go back to school and get a meaningful degree and do something other than football.

Perhaps he can be true and loving to his wife, have a family, and raise his children to be better than he was.

I think he's very fortunate he won't spend a day in prison.

You're right, people lose their jobs everyday and it's not fair. But most people don't lose their job because the public gets highly emotional and begins to put pressure on the employer. These people also don't typically go from being a millionaire to unemployed this quickly either. And most people have experience working at a mainstream job which makes it easier for them to transition to the next job. And most people live a lifestyle that can be supported by unemployment checks for at least a few months following them being let go. You really think Rice is going to be able to support his expenses for very long now? And most people who lose their job aren't prevented from getting an new one in their industry for an indefinite amount of time.

Do you really think Rice was prepared to be unemployed? Most NFL players aren't ready by the time they retire let alone released and indefinitely suspended. I also doubt Rice has the degree and relative experience a normal 27 year old has. I'd also venture to believe that most regular companies simply wouldn't hire Rice because of the clear media headache that it would cause. No one wants an office distraction. So he goes to making something close to minimum wage. I've known people who've lived on minimum wage and it's incredibly difficult. It's almost insurmountably hard to do that while raising a family.

And Rice isn't the only one whose life will be affected drastically by this. Both his wife and his daughter Rayven Rice are going to see their standard of living drop significantly. Any possibility of her having a good college fund has dropped to near impossible (I don't know if Rice had a college fund or not, but it's not uncommon for parents to set up a fund. And even if he didn't, before the public outcry Rice could've supported her much much better than he ever will now.)

As far as prison goes, I would agree with you. I said in my post that that bothered me the most. But I stand by my statement. Any plans Rice and his family had for their future has been shattered by one mistake. A grievous and appalling mistake no doubt, but one that thousands of people make each year. And of those thousands most don't see the kind of punishment that Rice has seen. Rice will by lucky to ever provide for his family to a fraction of the extent he could before this. He'll probably be lucky if he even has a stable family in a few years. Sounds like his life has been pretty destroyed to me. And I would say the public, the media, and the poor decision making of the Ravens and the NFL contributed more to that than the action itself.


Holy hell, what did I just read???

Are you really saying that Ray Rice is in a worse situation compared to others that lose their job because they can maintain their quality of life off of unemployment checks? And Ray Rice is screwed because he can't maintain his current level quality of life????


Hold the beep on.


Normal people life isn't as ruined from losing their job as a millionaires is......??.??


I just..... I just don't know what to think any more.
 

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No wait. I got to keep replying to that last one. I'm just blown away by it.

Ray already has millions. He can also sale is current million dollar home and buy a nice 4 bedroom in suburbia straight up. So he won't have any mortgage payment. He can easily invest his millions and live comfortably off of the interest alone.

So he won't be able to make it rain Benjamin's on strippers (before knocking them out), poor Ray.

I honestly don't understand what you are thinking.
 

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Cartire":1jzl5frk said:
No wait. I got to keep replying to that last one. I'm just blown away by it.

Ray already has millions. He can also sale is current million dollar home and buy a nice 4 bedroom in suburbia straight up. So he won't have any mortgage payment. He can easily invest his millions and live comfortably off of the interest alone.

So he won't be able to make it rain Benjamin's on strippers (before knocking them out), poor Ray.

I honestly don't understand what you are thinking.
Janay might be watching the yacht she was planning to buy sailing off into someone else's harbor.
 

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hawksfansinceday1":2mcsem2b said:
REALLY good analysis man. We have been stuck in Orwell's 1984 since Vietnam what with the TV news media not being allowed to show the true horrors of war in any of the Middle East "conflicts" on our TV sets. The power brokers watched those type of images cost LBJ his presidency and they have never allowed it since. They then followed that up with fun stuff like "Patriot Act" etc. Twitter and the instant sharing of images, video and information gives me hope that we will break out of the Orwellian world we have been in the last 30+ years.
Yes, and that hope will be under attack from people and organizations with considerable power and wealth who have a vested interest in maintaining it. During my undergrad I wrote a paper comparing journalism during the Civil War vs World War I. Those wars were just 50 years apart, but the level of government censorship of the press went up astronomically. The increase of suppression was in response to the increased availability of the printed word and the advent of radio. The information suppression we see in our current wars is a continuation and escalation of information control.

The term "National Security" was in use back in WWI, but it was usually reserved for things like troop placement and fleet movement. Now it's used for everything that might shed light on official wrongdoing and in a way that reads as YOUR personal security, dear citizens. Covering up, say, horrific torture that was perpetrated by Americans becomes a National Security issue. It's really just a PR issue, as far as us everyday people having that info. Maybe all those countries that we reprimand for human rights violations would present a threat to our nation if they found out. But is hiding hypocrisy what we think of when our elected officials deny us info? The only "threat" in this kind of situation is dissemination of the truth, when the truth makes the controller of information look bad. Calling it a National Security issue, whether it actually is or not, means unquestionably "justified" censorship.

kearly":2mcsem2b said:
I think you do an excellent job here of capturing the mindset. It's the details I disagree with.

A realization came upon me in the last few days. This new twitter-activist culture is a strange brew. It's highly progressive in nature, but paradoxically it is emotionally reactionary and anti-intellectual (shouting down debate, etc). In way, it almost feels like the left-wing version of the tea party. Combustible anger. Demands for change. Conspiracy theories. Freaking out about relatively minor things that are facts of life (in contrast to far larger issues in the '60s like Vietnam, Segregation, etc).

I agree with the goals of the movement, but I always look at both sides of the coin, which has made me a target on pretty much every issue as of late. Any movement that fails to look at both sides and reacts out of emotion is a flawed process, and will often produce unintended consequences.
I hear ya. There is a lot of emotion involved when people speak out about injustice. That's not a reason to dismiss it. There's nothing going on in the Twitterverse that wasn't happening in chat rooms before it, or private think tanks, or local pubs, or in churches, and secret meetings of abolitionists pre-Civil War. The difference is technology now sends these discussions around the globe instantaneously. It's really the most democratic medium history has ever experienced. There's essentially equal access to left, right, rich, poor, black, white, etc.

The reason Twitter feels "left wing" to some is that we're hearing the actual voices of the disenfranchised people themselves, who by definition have not been represented in the MSM. There are plenty of "right wing" people on Twitter. If their messages don't capture the public interest, or hit people on an emotional level, that's not a fault of the medium.

If we as a country never got past the emotional stage, yes that's a problem. Often, the intelligent conversations need to begin with openly shared emotions. Any level-headed person who has been in a significant personal relationship has experienced a constructive conversation that started out more on the emotional side of the scale. The anger, fear, hurt, and outrage being shared openly points to the topics we should be talking about. There are intellectual conversations about domestic violence happening in mainstream forums that might not have happened without the voices of people speaking out on a gut-reaction level.

And "minor things" to you might not be minor to others. Without getting sidetracked by bringing up specific events, there is a common thread of traditional power holders in all walks of life denying responsibility or ignoring the mistreatment of people often already marginalized, UNTIL the public is made aware by independent journalists, eyewitnesses, and concerned citizens. The other side of the coin is often an untold story of persistent and institutionalized oppression.

In other words, without public outcry, injustice flourishes under unquestioned power. Without the anger, where would we be? I've found that by paying attention to tweeters' timelines and allegiances, by substantiating facts with third parties, and by comparing citizens' eyewitness video, or security video, with MSM reports, I can sift through hyperbole and unfounded opinions to get to the poignant, documentable truth in a lot of these Twitter "blow-ups".

Yxes1122":2mcsem2b said:
This.

It's one of the things I greatly dis-like about the twitter rampage that came from the Ray Rice incident and Donald Sterling incident. Those who champion the punishment that came down on Rice will quickly disregard that they have essentially destroyed a human being's life (and the lives of his dependents) by lighting a fire under the NFL. Ray Rice will never play for another team and no broadcast agency is going to pick him up because of how poorly he is received by the public. And most people don't care, because they've looked at one incident, made an emotional decision and will refuse to even acknowledge that some bad has come out of the social backlash.

Let me state this as well, what Ray Rice did was wrong on every moral and ethical level. When I imagine my younger sisters in a similar situation it enrages me. But the whole point of justice is to be impartial. To give a proper punishment to the crime. The NFL just set a new policy that sets an unbiased punishment for this crime and instead decided to go above and beyond that to save face in the public. Is that justice? To some yes, but do you think it's a fair punishment to have your life destroyed for one mistake? Do you think the Ravens or NFL were motivated by anything other than self gain to end this publicity nightmare?

My primary issue with the whole Ray Rice thing was how he got off scott free in the judicial system. That's flat wrong. But I think the indefinite suspension made Rice a scapegoat for the poor decisions made by the Ravens organization and NFL when the first suspension was laid down. Which I think is wrong as well.

Also, Kearly, you may not have meant all that I said, I kind of took your "emotional" twitter premise and applied it to this specific situation. I know you may not agree with everything I've said here.
I agree that the judicial system failed. That's a recurring theme in a lot of the Twitter "rampages" on many topics: the established systems tasked with meting out justice for all, are not doing it. They have been failing for a long time. In the past you had to dig and dig and dig through physical materials to find suppressed statements, or tacit complicity, or the actual sources and processes behind the whistle-blowing. Even then, you had very very few outlets to share the information you found. But Woodward and Bernstein had their day, and it's gone. Now, anyone who witnesses a crime, or an abuse of power, or injustice of any kind, can let the world know 140 characters at a time.

As to the lack of consistency on the NFL's part, you seem to point to the "publicity nightmare" presumably caused by overemotional Tweeters. The NFL heard the incredulousness from a lot of journalists and broadcasters, as well as people's tweets after announcing Ray Rice's 2-game suspension. The NFL horribly miscalculated the country's anger against domestic violence. They miscalculated how their players are held to a higher standard. Fair or unfair, that's been a truth basically forever. Quick note on that: I heard a guy on 710 yesterday say "you don't hear about a guy at Home Depot getting fired for hitting his girlfriend." That's true. You also don't hear your kids asking for posters of the Home Depot guy, or getting excited they got the Home Depot guy in their pack of cards, or drafting the Home Depot guy for their fantasy team. Stan Lee's Spider-Man quote comes to mind.

Point is, the NFL mismanaged this from the beginning – the lackluster investigation – and that had NOTHING to do with people expressing their feelings of outrage. "Lighting a fire under the NFL" is not a scathing accusation. How the NFL responds is in direct proportion to how the NFL thinks the outcry will affect its bottom line. The NFL is the one passing the blame all on Ray Rice, in the form of an indefinite suspension. If he did lie to them, he deserves it. If he was forthcoming, but the NFL tried to keep it under wraps, and the NFL can't get its punishment policies straight, that's entirely on the NFL.
 
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Also now being reported that NFL left a voicemail with the casino confirming they had received the video.
 

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Holy Freakin crap ! I can't believe what I had to listen to on ESPN as I drove home! It seems that Ray Rice is now the victim and Roger Goodell is now the bad guy? just sickening!
 

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brimsalabim":xskbqpmf said:
Holy Freakin crap ! I can't believe what I had to listen to on ESPN as I drove home! It seems that Ray Rice is now the victim and Roger Goodell is now the bad guy? just sickening!

Huh?

I've been watching the coverage all day and I'm not sure what you are watching. They just did the outside the lines where they show Rice spitting on his then GF. Not sure how that portrays Rice as the "victim".

And Goodell is justifiably getting raked over the coals (like Rice)
 

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So a drunk guy and his drunk girlfriend get in a fight at a casino and it turns into 9/11 part 2. God bless America.
 
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brimsalabim":30p92xpx said:
Holy Freakin crap ! I can't believe what I had to listen to on ESPN as I drove home! It seems that Ray Rice is now the victim and Roger Goodell is now the bad guy? just sickening!

According to the local Houston news (and Moon's ex wife), Janay is wrong for marrying him and it's status quo for Rice and Goodell. Apparently all football players are abusive and the wives/GFs are all stuck and can't get out.

Who new?

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Prosecutor says Rice never would have gone to jail.

McClain's said Rice was never going to face jail time no matter the outcome of the verdict. Instead, Rice faced either a pre-trial intervention or probation. Given the choice to drag the matter out over the course of several months or wrap it up ahead of time with a PTI, McClain said the prosecution decided to forgo the trial for the sake of Janay Rice.

"It's not fair to the victim to put her through that when that was the difference," said McClain.

http://www.sbnation.com/nfl/2014/9/10/6 ... al-assault

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Laloosh":2197gkhv said:
[tweet]https://twitter.com/RapSheet/status/509896047532212224[/tweet]

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This is the funniest shizz. Who is comforted by this?! GEE THANKS, IAN! Way to go, errand boy!

No last-second attempt to legitimize the NFL's bogus story will work, especially if MARA and ROONEY are overseeing it. I would not be surprised if it turned up a "suitable" scapegoat (woman on phone message?) but it's too late.

LIAR, LIAR, DUMPSTER'S ON FIRE.

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Zebulon Dak":1nyt4txa said:
So a drunk guy and his drunk girlfriend get in a fight at a casino and it turns into 9/11 part 2. God bless America.
No kidding, man. I'm kinda pissed that people are so up in arms about this while most of the outraged wouldn't know what Leonard Little and Donte Stallworth did without friggin' Googling it. Not to marginalize domestic violence, but for Christ's sake, where's the outrage over killing people while driving drunk?

Some stank hypocrisy going around America (and this forum) right now...
 

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RolandDeschain":1rpchuqa said:
Zebulon Dak":1rpchuqa said:
So a drunk guy and his drunk girlfriend get in a fight at a casino and it turns into 9/11 part 2. God bless America.
No kidding, man. I'm kinda pissed that people are so up in arms about this while most of the outraged wouldn't know what Leonard Little and Donte Stallworth did without friggin' Googling it. Not to marginalize domestic violence, but for Christ's sake, where's the outrage over killing people while driving drunk?

Some stank hypocrisy going around America (and this forum) right now...

You know why people don't get outraged over driving drunk?

Because most men who drink have gotten behind the wheel after a few drinks. Just sayin'
 

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huskylawyer":3quk6z6y said:
Because most men who drink have gotten behind the wheel after a few drinks. Just sayin'
If you're saying more than 50% of the 21+ male population of America has driven while legally intoxicated, I can't agree. Provide some evidence?

If you're talking about simply having alcohol in your veins but under the legal limit, then of course, yeah...

But how many people can identify with rich guys that have a free ride service through their employer 24/7/365 driving drunk for the hell of it?
 

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RolandDeschain":1y0nb1du said:
huskylawyer":1y0nb1du said:
Because most men who drink have gotten behind the wheel after a few drinks. Just sayin'
If you're saying more than 50% of the 21+ male population of America has driven while legally intoxicated, I can't agree. Provide some evidence?

If you're talking about simply having alcohol in your veins but under the legal limit, then of course, yeah...

But how many people can identify with rich guys that have a free ride service through their employer 24/7/365 driving drunk for the hell of it?

I'm saying that nearly every dude I know who casually drinks has at least once in their lives had 2+ beers and driven home, and I'm not exactly running with Jim Belushi types. And most guys know a guy who has had a DUI.

DUI related offenses (including DUI manslaughter) are punished lightly in this country because lawyers, doctors, blue collar types, white collar types, politicians, etc., generally enjoy a drink or two, and many will get behind the wheel. If people got lengthy jail sentences for DUI related offenses, it would literally cripple the court and jail systems.

I'm not saying it is the right approach.. But that's how it works. I'm a realist.
 

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Under the right set of circumstances, two drinks MAY push SOME people into 0.08% territory. The vast majority of people are fine to drive after two drinks and have not hit the legal limit, though. This is coming from someone who has a breathalyzer that he uses as a party favor, too. I'm not unfamiliar with the things.
 

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Senator Rockefeller wants things looked into as well. He has a lot more weight than any owner or Goodell, if he wants the truth he will get it. Also with him wanting something done there won't be much BS. The former FBI investigator should tow the line in this.
 

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So, the major issue is now whether Goodell saw the footage before he handed down the punishment or not? Jesus Christ, who gives a flying shack word. I dislike the guy as much as anybody else here, but what the hell goddam difference does it really make?

Ray Rice punched his girlfriend. She's over it, we should all be too. This is so dumb.
 
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