Marriage is just a contract. I don't get why people sign those ridiculous things.
"Show somebody you love them by agreeing to royally f*ck yourself over if you ever get divorced" just doesn't make sense to me. Is that what love is to most people? Must be.
Have a ceremony, say your vows, celebrate your love. That makes sense. Hell, sign some sort of power of attorney, too, for medical and other decisions in the event of incapacitation. Those things are easily revoked and any bs can be righted through the court process.