I hear you Chris. Big name/big money FAs is not where this team has been or will be heading.
Sometimes I drool at the thought of some player being available, and I can't help sometimes feeling a little disappointed when they always (well, almost always) go somewhere else. But we are building something special here, and sacrificing players that have proven themselves here in trades/cuts that don't really make a lot of sense in the long run is bad for the team and for morale.
The hype machine will continue to churn, and posters will continue to scream "Let's get this guy!" But P&J know a lot more than I do about what they're trying to do and how to do it. Their track record of finding good players in obscure places has been pretty good so far.
We're in for some exciting times. And the excitement will be on the field where it belongs, and not in the boardroom negotiating trades, deals, and contracts. The primary goal should always be the Super Bowl, not the draft.